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No Pain. No Gain.

 That was a popular saying “back in the day.”  It used to be so simple: If you wanted to reach a new level of physical fitness, then you had to push through some pain. Then, everyone got all politically correct and medically advanced and convinced us all that “pain” was bad and that if you felt pain, then you should stop. Wimps! :)

I guess the medical community had a point (if you are injured, you need to stop), but anyone who has ever trained for a sport knows that to get to the next level it requires pushing through a little discomfort.  It is just the way life works: advancement takes work and sacrifice and, yes, some “pain.”

Following Christ is much the same. If you want to take your walk to a different level, there will be seasons of pain. There will be times you will suffer. We are told that Jesus had to suffer on the Cross (Mark 8:31Luke 9:22), the early disciples considered it an honor to suffer for the Gospel (Acts 5:41) and Paul encouraged Timothy to suffer with him for the proclaiming of the Good News (2 Tim 2:3). It may not sound right to our ears in 2012 but to take an element of suffering out of our walks with Christ is to take out something essential. You can’t make oatmeal raisin cookies without oatmeal, and you can’t make the Christian life without a little bit of suffering.

For those fasting, remember when we fast and deny ourselves we are in good company. Jesus fasted for 40 days, faced tremendous persecution and then suffered a horrible death on the Cross. Push through knowing He did all of this for you and you are glorifying Him in your sacrifice.

Posted in Jesus, [church], fasting.

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don’t forget the oatmeal

My little brother has a passion for cooking and, unfortunately for my wife, that passion is not shared by all of his brothers. My little bro particularly likes to bake pastries and cookies. He takes his cookies very seriously and he makes some of the best I’ve ever tasted. Which makes this even more funny: he once made “oatmeal raisin cookies” but forgot to add the oatmeal. Our family and friends back in Kansas City will never let him live that down.

Kind of reminds me of fasting. When we fast, we give up personal comfort and desire and fill that void with more of God. Too often we give up something and forget to add God into the recipe. He’s the reason we fast…so we can trust Him more, desire Him more, crave Him more. Fasting without adding more of God is like making oatmeal raisin cookies and forgetting the oatmeal.

Remember to take some extra time with God during your fast!

Posted in God, Jesus, [church], fasting.


a welcomed interruption

There are times when the day-to-day routine just isn’t enough and we have to interrupt what is comfortable. I am in one of those seasons. It is time to press in a little deeper, sacrifice a little and ask God to fill in the gaps.  On January 3rd, New City Church begin what is commonly known as the Daniel fast, a 21-day fast we will break on January 24th.  As an added incentive and a way to celebrate God’s goodness, we are taking of Sundays to enjoy a regular diet!

You can get the details of the fast here and here, but don’t get too caught up in the minutia of it.  Fasting is not about legalism, but relationship. Jesus said that ”…the days will come when the bridegroom is taken away, and then they will fast.”  Matt 9:15 In other words, there are times when our relationship with God will seem distant and in those days we should fast. That is what fasting is all about…removing things from our lives, denying ourselves and replacing the lack with more of God.

I pray you are joining us on this journey.

Posted in [church], fasting.


An Open Letter to Tim Tebow

Dear Mr. Tebow - Full disclosure up front: While I have always been a fan, I have to admit that I was a little annoyed by all of the hype when you played at Florida.  I am a Christian, a pastor, even, and yet there seemed times when it was all a little too much. I thought the Phil. 4:13 eye-black patches were a little over the top.

“I can do all things…like play football better…through Christ who strengthens me.”  Maybe the apparent misapplication of that Scripture bothered me. :)

But, underneath all of the media hype, the Heisman hysteria and the Philippino mission fields I believed in what I saw. And, I still do.  My belief in you as a man, a follower of Christ and a football player has only grown.  The same is true for thousands of others.  But, the reason for this letter is that one of those thousands of others is my 8-year-old son.  He looks up to you; he wants to be like you. As a dad, I can’t imagine having a better athlete role model for him, and therein lies the MAIN reason for this letter.

You see,  Mr. Tebow (which just sounds weird since you are 15 years my junior), I’ve believed in other athletes before.  They may not have exhibited your character, but still I believed in what they did.  I believed that Roger Clemens was just that good. I believed it was hard work and God-given talent that set him apart. Now I know it was that plus PEDs, a lot of PEDs.  I believed that A. Rod. was just better than everyone. After all, he always looked the same. He was intensely focused, was the kind to take extra batting practice and since high school, he stood above the crowd. Sure, he was eccentric, but I admired his play on the field; “maybe the best ever,” I thought.  It was an illusion; not all of it, of course, but too much of it.  I wanted so bad to believe in Mark McGuire too.  I believed that Barry Bonds…oh, never mind, I always knew he was a juice-head. :)   I believed in Tiger. I know, I know…his attitude stunk at times.  He cussed; he slammed his clubs; he pouted. But, I wanted him to win because there is something about a person chasing history and a competitor at the top of his game who constantly rises to the challenge. Awe-inspiring.  Then, we found out that Tiger wasn’t just sort of an edgy, whiny, prima donna; he was a serial adulterer, concerned about no one but himself. Others call him much worse; I’ll leave it at that but there was no TW Nike gear for my kiddos after that mess.  I believed in Lance Armstrong, yet strong evidence suggests those seven titles were artificially boosted.  Marion Jones, another “great” athlete who captured our imaginations on the back of drug-enhanced performances. On and on and on and on….and on, the list goes.

Mr. Tebow, I know you are not perfect.  You will make mistakes. You are not Jesus (this comes as no shock to you, I know).  I know nothing you do or don’t do can damage the Kingdom of God beyond what it can bear. But, please, continue to do it the right way.  Don’t take a short cut; when people continue to try every conceivable (and some unconceivable) way to dimish you as a player and person, don’t cave. You’ve shown us the right way. Press on. Continue fighting the good fight.  I know you don’t need me to tell you this, but I need to say it for me, for my son and daughters and for everyone else out there buying a Tebow jersey on Amazon.com right now.  Stay true; stay clean; stay humble, stay deeply dependent on Jesus and yes, stay committed to competing ferociously and winning football games.

Sincerely yours,

Brian Kruckenberg and all the parents out there looking for a celebrity athlete we can point to and say “son/daughter, do it that way.”

Posted in Jesus, [church], [culture].


Leadership Failure: a lesson reinforced by the penn state case

If you’ve not heard about the terribly sickening child sexual abuse case that has been brought against a former Penn State University assistant coach, Jerry  Sandusky, count yourself lucky. The details are disturbing to the highest degree. Horrendous acts against young innocent children were committed by a man that was supposed to be loving and protecting them.  When this man was discovered perpetrating these acts in a Penn State locker room shower (unbelievable!!), he was “reported” but nothing of true consequence was done. NOTHING!  Mind-numbing.   Joe Paterno, the legendary coach of Penn State, was informed almost immediately about the event and he reported it to his superiors. And, from what we know, that was basically it. It took nine more years for Sandusky to be arrested. Seriously, how does that happen?

This horrific case is a vivid reminder of what true leaders do:

They act. They do what they are supposed to do and they don’t wait to do it. When the action is clear, do it.  Don’t wait. Act. Don’t worry about what it might mean for “your reputation” or if it will cause you emotional pain. Often the right action is the one that causes pain to one or more parties. But not acting is cowardice, damaging and ultimately more painful. The Penn State case is a dramatic example of how the inaction of leaders brought tremendous damage, long-term, far-reaching damage.  As a leader your inaction does the same to those you are called to lead and to the organization you have a fiduciary duty to protect and promote.  While we might never face something as heinous as this case, when we as leaders know it is time to do something and we don’t do it, we’ve put our own comfort, ego and pride above those we are called to lead, shepherd and protect. It is inexcusable.

Leaders, lead … or let someone else do the job you won’t do.

Posted in Leadership, [culture].